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So here is the question for today…
My nephew, my neice and Analiese all have May birthdays all within two weeks of one another. Each year we do a family and friends party for each kid. This year we thought that perhaps we should combine all three of them and do one family party. This means that family will only have to come to one party. This means that it will be one day in the full month of May to have to donate to these birthdays.
So here is the problem. Rob thinks that it is wrong. He thinks that then friends and family will be strapped having to buy three presents all at once. He thinks that it is just wrong and has told me to back out of the idea. The trouble is that it was my idea and I still think that it is a nice one. The other problem is that we have already mentioned it to people and how do we cancel now. I am not worried about gifts. Analiese is turning 2 and already has all of the clothing, toys and stuff that any two year old could need.
I want to know what you think? Is this party a bad idea?
Becca
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I think it’s a great idea. We do the same in January since mine, my husband’s and my grandmother’s are all close. It actually saves money…. less gas going and hey time is money so the time you would spend at three parties vs just one will still be money saved. If he is concerned consider asking for a cap on the spending or being creative and making the gifts.
If gifts are the only issue, then cap the spending limit or ask that each guest bring a book as a gift (not pricey and educational, too!).
I think it sounds fun!
I thank you Court and Kathy! You made me feel a little less crazy!
Becca
Actually I think it is a great idea. If you are close enough to come to the party and you are family you are going to but for all 3 people anyway. If you are a friend of 1 or the other only but for that person. In this economy sharing expenses is the only way to keep some of the traditions alive. I would hate to see a bad economy ruin family / freinds parties.
good luck enjoy the day.
I think it is good because I may not get to go to the Birthday of the other kids, and now I can wish them a happy birthday too!
I was also told not to worry about gifts for the kids (and to be honest, I do not think they would really notice in the fray). I have been looking for a little something for each and do not feel “strapped.”
I can see if Rob is thinking that it just so big with so many people, but still I think it will all be fine.
I agree that it’s a great idea. LOVE the books as gifts idea too. Inexpensive, educational, and a gift that keeps on giving…
It is a very good ideea! It saves you time and money! There should not be a problem buying 3 presents at once than to buy 3 present during a month!